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The One With The 80/20 Rule

  • Writer: Peaches James
    Peaches James
  • Feb 22, 2024
  • 1 min read

Updated: Mar 15, 2024

The 80/20 Rule:

The 80/20 rule in relationships emphasizes appreciating the 80% of fulfillment we receive, while acknowledging the inevitable 20% of imperfections and desires unmet.


Strutting down the vibrant street of love and connection, the 80/20 rule emerges as our cosmopolitan guide, mingling the rich essence of what is with the sobering whisper of what might never be.



Imagine your life, dazzling and full, brimming with 80% of everything you've craved in relationships: the laughter that dances through the air, the silent nods that speak volumes.


Yet, in this shimmering tableau, a shadowy 20% lurks, tempting us toward the unexplored realms of our desires.


This isn't a gaping void but rather a gentle nudge of caution, urging us to navigate the intricate web of connections with eyes wide open. It's not about pining for what's missing but celebrating the perfectly imperfect tapestry of human connection, recognizing that no one can fulfill every dream.


Discover Your Non-Negotiables:

Embrace Realistic Expectations:

Foster Personal Growth and Self-Discovery:


The 80/20 rule, is both a beacon of gratitude for the richness we have and a subtle warning against the allure of an unattainable perfection. It encourages us to savour the reality of our bonds and explore what makes up our 80% and 20%. Leading the way to foster partnerships and friendships where both parties feel understood and valued.


In the grand dance of love, it's about finding a delicate balance: cherishing the present and respecting the shadows that define the contours of our desires. It reminds us to hold dear the core values that form our 80%, while keeping our expectations grounded in the beautiful, flawed reality of human connection.

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